An Introduction to a Modern Movement
for
21st Century Sexual Integrity
“The Right time to do the Right thing is Right Now!”
What is Sexual Integrity in the 21st Century?
Sexual Integrity is choosing to only have sex with a partner you genuinely share a mutual love and respect, and only when both partners are emotionally and spiritually present.
It is a demand for true sexual equality and respect.
It is a deeply internal knowledge of the power of sexual energy and the Choice to only share that power with a partner that will multiply that power with their own.
What is the Answer?
Answer 1:
The Sexual Integrity Filter!
Tell a new partner, when offered sex “I do not have sex with anyone I do not love.”
The players will freeze and flee. The Abusers will try to convince you that you are wrong and stupid. Run Away!
Men of Integrity will agree and ask you for that second (or third or 100th) date!
Answer 2:
Talk openly about sexual integrity with your daughters and sons, your girlfriends and your spouse. Fight gossip with a strong reminder that sexual integrity may not save the world, but it may save a life. One woman at a time, we can make a difference.
Answer 3:
Set the example. Live the life you believe in and share your success as a person of integrity with those who are lost in a sea of personal disrespect. It is never too late to change.
As a mother, as a single woman rapidly approaching 40, I am not on a crusade to pass judgment on the relationships of others. I am on a quest to inform and influence women to take strength in their own sexual power and not to share it lightly!
I know the Power of the opinion of a woman who loves you.
I dream of a movement of women talking to women about self-respect, strength and the Power of Sexual Energy.
I dream of a granddaughter talking with his grandma, sharing her own deeply personal beliefs on sexual integrity; and then a vision of that same young lady, a bit of a buzz at a keg party soon after. A boy she barely knows recognizes the blurry-eye lack of resistance and tries to lead her away from the party, to the dorms. The voice of her grandmother whispers, insistent over the alcohol cloud, and she says, “No. I do not have sex with anyone I do not love and respect and does not love and respect me.” The boy wanders off, looking elsewhere for his pleasure and the girl proudly, heads off to bed. From there the power of the movement expands, indefinitely across a virtual sea of women, heart to heart.
The next morning, that young lady shares the story and the power with her roommate, who shares the story with her kid sister, still in high school.
The kid sister sees the light come on. She knows now how to handle the pressure from that senior, who won’t be her boyfriend, but is looking for “friends with benefits”. She feels stronger, takes ownership in her Power, and shares the story with her friends. On and on, heart to heart, one of those friends shares the story with her divorced mother. A place where there was loneliness fills with hope, strength where there was weakness, a light in the dark.
This is my dream.
Help me.
Share your story. Send me an email or a comment.
Thank you for being a part of my dream!
Visit my first Blog about Sexual Integrity here!
